What No One Tells You About Starting Therapy
Therapy isn’t about being fixed. It’s about being found.
This blog is called Triggered But Healing because that’s what real healing looks like.
You can be doing the work, showing up to therapy, setting boundaries, and still get overwhelmed, still feel anxious, still get triggered. That doesn’t mean you’re failing. It means you’re human.
At The Haven Healing Spot, we believe healing is a journey, not a straight line. This blog is a space for honest conversations, gentle reminders, and tools to help you through the hard days and celebrate the small wins. You’ll find stories, tips, and encouragement from therapists who get it, and from a community that’s walking through healing too.
Whether you're navigating trauma, burnout, grief, or just trying to breathe, this space is for you.
You can be triggered and healing at the same time, you are not behind.... You’re becoming.
- Thank you for finding us-
Therapy isn’t about being fixed. It’s about being found.
It’s about being honest...It’s not about stopping all your thoughts...It’s about noticing them without getting lost in them...
You are allowed to rest... not because you’ve earned it, but because you exist. Rest is not a weakness. It’s a form of remembering who you are without the performance.
You’re tired...Not just physically...But emotionally...Mentally...Spiritually tired!
Why Vulnerability Matters in Therapy
You learned to be strong early... To harden...To push through...To never let them see you cry...
You’re showing up. You’re smiling. You’re functioning, but something still feels off.You laugh when you’re supposed to. You post. You get through the day. But beneath it all… there’s a heaviness. A quiet, aching tiredness. A part of you that’s just going through the motions.
You’re the strong one. The fixer. The one everyone calls when things fall apart.You show up for your family. You get it done at work. You hold it together, even when you’re falling apart inside. And because you look okay, people assume you are okay.
Ever feel like you’re doing “all the right things” but still get overwhelmed?
Thinking about therapy but unsure what to expect?